Most couples who are married where one is a Mormon and the other isn't, usually stems from a situation where they both were married in the temple, then one of them lost their faith sometime after that. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. Mormonism is a lot more controlling and has a lot more downsides. I hope he can do it. Lots of good hearty healthy food. I hope you can make this work out. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. His whole family joined after he did.
I do my best to keep busy during the day, school, cleaning, organizing, going to the gym and my daughter. Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward. In any case; I can assure you from your post that he doesn't sound like he's being selfish; the behavior does sound like its residency related and not selfishness related. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. I am someone who loves quality time a lot. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. After reading all these comments I now know that life will be even harder when he will be in residency My boyfriend and I are getting engaged next month. Don't tiptoe around the issue.
If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. When DH comes in he is still gone more than half the time. I'm really glad I found this post today. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. The religious differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move. That was my experience.
Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. I would rather being with a man who makes less and is faithful but that is just me!. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year. January 17, February 18, Spending time with this guy is hard to come by. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you.