So now, after two years, I'm finally starting to realise that just because I've met someone and we love each other dearly, it doesn't mean I get the benefits of having a co-parent around, which is something I desperately want. But I ultimately leave it to him most times. The date night strategy is a great idea, and we have tried it, but he is sometimes on call every other night for a month and it makes it tough the nights he's on call he likes to be home just in case and the nights he's not on call, he needs to sleep in case he's up all night the following night. A lot of people are religious. You and your fiancee might want to get in touch with one to work out the day-to-day issues of an interfaith marriage. This was the biggest one for me. Props to people who do. Do you drink alcohol. Yet, this life is hard on the whole family. He completely flipped the switch.
Yes, do sever the relationship. He started to reflect on how he had become accustomed to missing the day to day moments but these were the big ones that were now being pushed behind his work in priorities. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. I can't quite put my finger on it. Our daughter is 6. With that being said, I have long considered myself just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank energy drinks, and occasionally stayed in my running clothes sans garments to do yard work. That's my two cents. Or am I just being a pushover and need to demand a little more if he wants to keep seeing me. And now he is in his 60s. Its been over a year and I don't know what to do.
The only thing I can say is good luck to all. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. How do you feel about that. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools.
You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. I moved out of sate to be with him. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me.
Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense.