I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. I cooked every meal…… My husband went to work…being a god to his patients. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. I find it's helpful to focus on the fact that it's the job that demands so much of him, rather than him simply opting out of time spent with us. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies. We started to communicate our needs more clearly, rather than tiptoeing, and we started to compromise. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. As much as I want to share his brilliance and compassion with the world, I know that once he makes that connection with someone's sick parent, it is easily hrs less of our family time, and he won't even be treating them. Buy them a bus ticket with a note and an address.
There were times I asked him if he was seeing someone else and both times he answered no. I'm dating a lovely guy who is in his first year of medical residency. And frankly, you feel like such a loser. I just pray daily that no matter what we end up doing we are 30 min or less away from each other. So I am at my dating prime. I am so in love with him and he says he is too minus the stupid cheating. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. What goes on in those sacred temples. What a joke for an archaeologist.
You never had it. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. I also have an MPH degree, and am currently working and trying to support us while he's in school. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. Like you, I didn't marry for the paycheck wouldn't have done me any good. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him.
Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. Those will make her think. So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. The Book of Abraham one admits it's not a translation.