I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. Consider yourself above many things. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. He has changed a lot throughout this process, but I don't know what he will be like once we are finished. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months.
We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally. Odds are majorly against this dude. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. He has no idea now long it actually takes to finish boards and match. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her.
You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. A wonderful resource tool with great updates. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. Instead, I found someone outside the cult and we've been married almost 32 years She's looking for a dedicated priesthood holder who will take her to the temple. I'm telling you the spouse who stays pays a terrible price. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. I love how this applies to ALL marriages.
You should take all of the above advice to heart and follow it just in case, so you can make a smooth transition should it ever be necessary. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. It is easier and more enjoyable for him to zone out in the world of sweat and toil much like his school and training and work than to get to know me.