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I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. So good to find this I am married to a Dr with 2 young kids. While I admire his dedication, his focus and intelligence, it has been extremely hard on me. I don't know any other doctor's wives. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. Should I stay or let him do his thing. It has to do with their character. Yes have moved away from family at 7 months pregnant to knowing no-one and starting from scratch and having no support network especially from husband who couldn't wait to get away and had the cheek to say he dreaded coming home some nights, poor him, I dreaded being home most days.
She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. Love is a relation where compromise sacrifices and understanding matters a lot.
And those women are very replaceable to them. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs.
My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. You'll have to get use to the running late, the tire man, weeks without communication, dinner alone, and unanswered texts and phone calls. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. If you like your regular fix of alcohol or nicotine, then dating a Mormon probably isn't a good idea. I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. If so, you have a chance. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now. I wish I could let go of our love as easily as he has, but I just can't. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl.
Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. Where do you find Mormon girls. He sees all families being able to stay together. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. I wish there was a mother's support network for us all to join and meet up. Try a variety of dates. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. Anyway, you got yourself a treasure.
Whenever you're down or lonely, read the yellow bits. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation.