We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you. My boyfriend is in his second year of residency, and I'm still adjusting to this new situation. Don't think it's just women married to male physicians who suffer. I don't want to make a mistake by leaving everything I have going on for me for him. Cuddling is not demanding. The hardworking doctors won't even get the time or energy for affairs. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. That's in the footnotes of the polygamy in kirtland and nauvoo essay.
Why am I still with him. I'm glad he's upfront about the difficulty in dating for him. Our first Christmas married I want you all to know that you are loved and appreciated. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. I've learned that when I need attention, it's best to ask for it rather than wasting time acting sad or frustrated. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. Does that make sense. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. I guess I want to know if I do decided to start my future with him, should I expect to be constantly cheated on and be okay with it.
But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. But wait a minute. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. Due to their religious teachings, Mormons do not smoke, drink alcohol or caffeinated "hot drinks" coffee or tea or do drugs. Follow your heart and live life with no regrets. II do wish you luck. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either.
Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. She's really attractive, too. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone.