But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. We have 2 school age children. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. I think about leaving all the time now because by myself there are no disappointments. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years. I got to thinking about how I and others in my ward might react if a same sex couple attended church and how those views might WILL, fingers crossed change over the next decade. I would never change my decision to marry him.
The Mormon youth must not date before Aside from that, the Church also discourages them from getting into a serious relationship before they consider getting married. RUN like the wind. We have been together for just over a year and married for 3 months.
Religious differences, however are real. I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. I have a small child home full time with me, millions of miles away from any family. Find some small proxy act of affection that can be done regularly to say that he cares about you, and that can be kept sacred as a stand-in for everything else that's missed. I'm the wife of an intern and we try to make a night each week to go do something, just the two of us. My advice would be to date him when he has free time. It really helped to make me feel better. Once you both die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous wife of someone else. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. I'm on mobile and it isn't letting me post the URL.
Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. And that fairly constant theme has some deep implications your girlfriend will have to face. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. I bring him food I make sure he's happy. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime. Your mids is still young.
The thing is, i was already a. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case.
He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths.