Though I am yet to see if we would make it. None felt right, ever. Just stumbled across this site today after trying to find ways to help me cope with dating a Doctor. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. It CAN work, to be frank. I really hadn't considered a lot of the points people have brought up. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. They are not God. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church.
Today was his day off and not one word from him. The Mormon culture has mastered the forked tongue. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. This is really a conversation you need to have with him. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. As you can see Also, the fact that she served a mission is evidence of her dedication to the religion. This is a reply to all. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons.
Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. If you marry for a paycheck and a lifestyle, you are nothing but a gold digger and therefore won't MIND if your husband has a mistress on the side. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. If my husband and I had been dating during any of this, it would not have lasted long a few weeks maximum. I believe rules are to be obeyed. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. I think you need to figure out if you are willing to stay in a relationship with a man who's so busy, because trust me, it's not going to change anytime soon. Except his wife was and still is a witch.
There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. It was a huge shock to me and caused a lot of worry on my part. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom. If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church.
It'll reinforce the wisdom of running from this disaster in the making.