So, you're with a naked man or realistically, if you're reading this right now you know you'll be in the same room as a naked man you want to have consensual sex with sometime in the future. But now what? The Amazon sex position? You might be rushing to have sex, but foreplay is super important, not only just for you, but for men as well! Dudes like to feel seduced, too! Think about how sexy you feel when your partner takes their sweet, sweet time soaking up every inch of your body before you have sex.
From where to touch, how to touch, what to bring into the bedroom, and what to say, here are 39 downright H-O-T things to try with a nude dude. Do you both have a sexy nurse fantasy or any other hot role-playing idea? Giving your partner a sensual massage can not only build excitement and get you both raring to go, but also helps you get in tune with their body and build comfortability and trust.
Both shows are guaranteed to get your blood pumping in all the right ways. And never forget, the couple that streams together, stays together. Want to hand your partner the reins? Try a remote-controlled vibrator that lets them control the intensity and pattern of a vibrator while you go to town across from them across town in this instance can literally be on the other side of the bed giving them a show.
If you love the idea of remote-controlled toys but want to keep all your fancy lingerie on, go for gold with a remote-controlled panty vibe. These underwear vibrators tuck into your panties for clitoral stimulation so you can continue to give him a show and parade around in your sexy wares at the same time.
Light some candles for a sexy glow that will not only make the mood extra sensual, but also make you feel your sexiest self while bathed in dim, flickering candlelight. A win-win! Even better if you get massage candles with an easy-pour spout so you can also transition into a sexy massage. If you and your partner are people who dig ASMR, you can also incorporate that into the bedroom.
ASMR sex! Put on some ASMR tracks Spotify has got you covered , and start throwing in some gentle touching and light tickling to see if you can feel the tinglies on another level. Try rubbing them in a circular motion, incorporating toys, or using your tongue to lick and suck. And then have him try it on you. Bonus if you have a nipple orgasm.
Make them put on a blindfold or tie a scarf around their eyes and drive them crazy with every mysterious stroke, kiss, lick, and touch. Only let them take it off if they beg. Turn on "Pony" and ask your boo to werk their best Channing impression. You can also watch both movies together too, for "inspiration. You can go for a minute or if you wanna be playfully mean, way longer than that. They'll both love and hate you for the latter, so why not let them let off some steam? Kiss and lick your way down their torso Then, walk away for a little bit.
Only you get to decide when you come back. Or honestly, like You just have so many options! You can try a couples vibe to close up that orgasm gap, try out a vibrating penis ring , get flirty with a finger vibe , or honestly, just get off with a classic.
Vacation sex is usually such a standout because you're on vacation, aka moving outside your go-to sex routine. But if you don't want to wait for a trip to have incredible sex, take a smaller trip—to a different part of your home.
Try the kitchen counter, a sturdy! Just, you know, keep it indoors and legal. A bonding activity that's actually delicious. Also a great excuse to come up behind each other as you take turns making that sandwich. Sure, it might be two hours before you actually eat, but who's counting??
Penises granted that they're freshly showered off tend to taste like nothing. Do your taste buds a favor and dole out some flavored lube, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, or whatever else you consider a dessert on a total snack. Whether reverse or regular, being on top can make it easier for you to orgasm. And hey, your partner will NOT mind the view. The prostate—the walnut-size gland under their bladder—is a vastly underutilized erogenous zone, not unlike the G-spot.
Try resting two fingers against the swath of skin between their testicles and anus when you ride them or give them head—it sounds random but trust, they will probably react.
You can always move on to fingering or pegging too! This is basically sex charades: Wrap your hand around their penis and don't say a word. When they do something you're really into, give them a little squeeze until you graduate to a full-on hand job. Telling your partner what you find so gd irresistible about them and what you want them to do to you is a great way to talk about consent and guarantee that the experience will be everything you hope for and more.
Also, it's just a huge turn-on. Saying nice things to people is underrated. If you like their butt, tell them! If their legs could on for daaaaaays, let em know! Grab some massage oil or even some lotion and get to work. Sometimes you gotta cool down to turn up the heat. Have your partner lie on their back as you run an ice cube from their neck aaaaalll the way down.
This positions your palm flat against their member's sensitive underside, the same way they grip it when they masturbate. Then do a few things they can't do themselves, like gently lick their ear or kiss their back. And if you're feeling particularly ambitious, you can attempt the rusty trombone , where you perform a rim job and hand job at the same time.
Ask your partner to hold you up against the wall, Ryan-Gosling-in- The-Notebook -style with your legs wrapped around their lower back. Not only is this minimal work for you, but watching them work up a sweat while they do sex things to you is not the worst way to spend a Sunday. Or a Tuesday night. Literally, everyone should do this more often. Again, actual sex might be tough here, but you can still grind up on each other and talk about your feelings!
Type keyword s to search. Today's Top Stories. Getty Khadija Horton. Carry on:. Try dressing up instead of dressing down. Give him a massage. Watch a sexy show together. Try a remote-controlled vibrator. Try a remote-controlled panty vibe. Rim him. Light some candles. Incorporate some ASMR sex into the mix. Play with his nipples. Also get naked. I mean, why not, right? Can't leave them all alone like that! Cover Their Eyes. Give Them a Show of Your Own. Be the Ultimate Tease.
Incorporate a Vibrator. Think Outside the Bed. Cook Together. Turn Them Into a Buffet. Getty Getty Images. Own Your Inner Cowgirl. Give Them the Silent Treatment. Get Dirty With Your Talk. Compliment Them! Break Out Into Downward Dog. Have your partner perform a solo yoga sesh, or join them.