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I try to be understanding but I find myself getting so angry. I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. Is this a sign of my own weakness. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church.
You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. Thanks for the help. You are commenting using your Facebook account. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest.
Heck his sleeps best with me on his chest. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. As time has gone by I realized that the opinons of others is not important to me and oddly enough those who did not originally approve have had their hearts and minds changed by the love my husband shows me, our daughter, and the members of my family. But we'd like to have children soon, so I'm looking forward to reading through the archives of your blog to see how you've made it work. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. Wow, every word resonates.
In childhood, that includes the majority. I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. Trust me, though--you will.